Thursday, December 21, 2006

Four Days Until Christmas


Four days until Christmas. The children are out of school for the holiday. The house is all decorated, most of the gifts wrapped and just a few more batches of cookies to be baked before the big day.
There are no ‘have to have it’ gifts on anyone’s list this year. I like that very much! No struggle to find that one desired item, no risk of disappointment and it is just a little less stressful all around. The girls are looking forward to Christmas for the sheer joy of the day, not just for the goodies.
I am looking forward to having most of my chicks back in the nest. It will be noisy, it will be crowded, it will be bliss. I know that the morning will dawn will smiling faces and small squeals of delight. Kindness will fill the room. Later, the aroma of the breakfast casserole will fill the air and then we’ll fill our tummies before putting our gifts to use.
Football will be the background noise of the day, too, but that’s ok. That means the men are home and for that I am grateful.
Dinner will be eaten in late afternoon by people too full from snacking on cookies and treats all day long. Sleep will find some, sprawled on couches and the floor. The room will be dark except for the glow of the Christmas lights. It will feel like the day is just about over.
Then someone will pull out a guitar and start strumming softly. Another guitar will appear and a voice will be added. Music will fill the house. Christmas classics, rock classics. Old and new tunes that most of know and some of us will learn as the songs progress. The music has begun and will continue until fingers and throats are sore from too much merriment.
It will end, reluctantly, but only after having given this family a wonderful night of song and memories. These are things I truly look forward to. These are the true gifts of Christmas.

Friday, December 15, 2006

Comfort Food

There is nothing like a hot meal on a chilly day. This will be perfect for this weekend with everyone going in different directions. I keep the spice mild so the girls can enjoy it, too.


Chili

1 lb ground beef
1 3 lb can kidney beans
2 1lb cans tomatoes, diced
2 8 oz cans tomato sauce
green pepper & onions, chopped
2 cloves garlic, minced or ¼ t garlic powder
1 T sugar
chili powder- start with 1 t and increase as desired
1 bay leaf
salt & pepper

Brown ground beef and drain. Put in large pot or crock pot and add remaining ingredients. Cook for 1 ½ hour if on stove top, 4 hours on low in crock pot.

Next to Jazz music, there is nothing that lifts the spirits and strengthens the soul more than a good bowl of chili . . . . Harry James, Trumpeter

A Call from the North Pole




The local high school sga has an elf program and last night Snowflake the elf called my girls to wish them a Merry Christmas let them know that everyone in the North Pole is thinking of them. She told them they were both on the ‘nice’ list and asked them what they want for Christmas. Their lists to Santa have already been sent, but I guess the girls thought he might need some new ideas. Bethany said she wants a thousand piece puzzle with a picture of our house on it! When Snowflake asked Bethany if she wanted anything else she ‘no, thank you.’ Jennifer said she wants a new doll to be a friend for her favorite doll, Cookie, and a shelf for her giraffe collection. Maybe Snowflake should call a bit earlier next year!

A Favorite Book


I first saw the movie Mrs. Miniver at the suggestion of my mother. I had asked her what her favorite movies were from the 40's and she was quick to put it at the top of her list, along with Love Letters and Leaver Her to Heaven. Mrs. Miniver became one of my favorites, too, and when I found that it was based on writings by Jan Struther that had appeared in a newpaper and then were put into book form, I naturally had to track down the book. I was also later pleased to find it online The book is a bit different from the movie and I enjoy the two as individual stories. Some of the stories are special, like the one I am posting here.

Mrs. Miniver Comes Home

It was lovely, thought Mrs. Miniver, nodding good-bye to the flower-woman and carrying her big sheaf of chrysanthemums down the street with a kind of ceremonious joy, as though it were a cornucopia; it was lovely, this settling down again, this tidying away of the summer into its box, this taking up of the thread of one's life where the holidays (irrelevant interlude) had made one drop it. Not that she didn't enjoy the holidays: but she always felt -- and it was, perhaps, the measure of her peculiar happiness -- a little relieved when they were over. Her normal life pleased her so well that she was half afraid to step out of its frame in case one day she should find herself unable to get back. The spell might break, the atmosphere be impossible to recapture.

But this time, at any rate, she was safe. There was the house, as neat and friendly as ever, facing her as she turned the corner of the square; its small stucco face as indistinguishable from the others, to a stranger, as a single sheep in a flock, but to her apart, individual, a shade lighter than the house on the left, a shade darker than the house on the right, with one plaster rosette missing from the lintel of the front door and the first-floor balcony almost imperceptibly crooked. And there was the square itself, with the leaves still as thick on the trees as they had been when she left in August; but in August they had hung heavily, a uniform dull green, whereas now, crisped and brindled by the first few nights of frost, they had taken on a new, various beauty. Stepping lightly and quickly down the square, Mrs. Miniver suddenly understood why she was enjoying the forties so much better than she had enjoyed the thirties: it was the difference between August and October, between the heaviness of late summer and the sparkle of early autumn, between the ending of an old phase and the beginning of a fresh one.

She reached her doorstep. The key turned sweetly in the lock. That was the kind of thing one remembered about a house: not the size of the rooms or the colour of the walls, but the feel of door-handles and light-switches, the shape and texture of the banister-rail under one's palm; minute tactual intimates, whose resumption was the essence of coming home.

Upstairs in the drawing-room there was a small bright fire of logs, yet the sunshine that flooded in through the open windows had real warmth in it. It was perfect: she felt suspended between summer and winter, savouring the best of them both. She unwrapped the chrysanthemums and arranged them in a square glass jar, between herself and the light, so that the sun shone through them. They were the big mop-headed kind, burgundy-coloured, with curled petals; their beauty was noble, architectural; and as for their scent, she thought as she buried her nose in the nearest of them, it was a pure distillation of her mood, a quintessence of all that she found gay and intoxicating and astringent about the weather, the circumstances, her own age and the season of the year. Oh, yes, October certainly suited her best. For the ancients, as she had inescapably learnt at school, it had been the eighth month; nowadays, officially, it was the tenth: but for her it was always the first, the real New Year. That laborious affair in January was nothing but a name.

She turned away from the window at last. On her writing-table lay the letters which had come for her that morning. A card for a dress-show; a shooting invitation for Clem; two dinner-parties; three sherry-parties; a highly aperitive notice of some chamber-music concerts; and a letter from Vin at school -- would she please send on his umbrella, his camera, and his fountain-pen, which leaked rather? (But even that could not daunt her to-day.)

She rearranged the fire a little, mostly for the pleasure of handling the fluted steel poker, and then sat down by it. Tea was already laid: there were honey sandwiches, brandy-snaps, and small ratafia biscuits; and there would, she knew, be crumpets. Three new library books lay virginally on the fender-stool, their bright paper wrappers unsullied by subscriber's hand. The clock on the mantelpiece chimed, very softly and precisely, five times. A tug hooted from the river. A sudden breeze brought the sharp tang of a bonfire in at the window. The jig-saw was almost complete, but there was still one piece missing. And then, from the other end of the square, came the familiar sound of the Wednesday barrel-organ, playing, with a hundred apocryphal trills and arpeggios, the "Blue Danube" waltz. And Mrs. Miniver, with a little sigh of contentment, rang for tea.


http://digital.library.upenn.edu/women/struther/miniver/miniver.html

Tuesday, December 12, 2006

Oh, Fudge!

I am thinking about making this wonderful fudge for Christmas. It is very easy and tastes wonderful!

Famous Fudge
4 cups sugar
1 cup milk
1 cup butter
3 cups mini marshmallows
1 t vanilla
11 ½ oz package milk chocolate chips
12 oz package semi sweet chocolate chips

9x13 pan, lined with buttered heavy duty foil
Melt first 3 ingredients in a large saucepan, bring to boil & allow to boil for 2 minutes. Remove from heat and add marshmallows. Mix until smooth. Add vanilla & all the chips, mixing until smooth. Add nuts, if desired.
Pour into pan and refrigerate until firm. Can be stored in the refrigerator tightly wrapped for up to one month.

Christmas Movies


I watched “Meet Me in St. Louis” on tv last night. It doesn’t matter that I own it on dvd or that I have seen it at least a thousand times. It is my favorite movie and I just had to watch it. Plus, there is something about watching it ‘live’ when lots of other people are watching it, too! I know it sounds crazy but I also know that others feel the same way. I have never really thought of it as a Christmas movie. There is a Christmas scene but all seasons are shown so it is more of an anytime movie for me. I think it will always be my favorite.

Each Christmas I seem to find one movie that just suits my mood for the season. Last year it was “The Bishop’s Wife”. I just love the ice skating! This year it is “Christmas in Connecticut”. Hardly a typical Christmas story but I love seeing the farmhouse. The huge fireplace, the antiques and the layout of the house are just so perfect. I could very easily live on a farm in a house like that!

My other favorite Christmas movies are White Christmas, Holiday Inn, A Christmas Carol (the 1938 version), It’s a Wonderful Life, Holiday, A Christmas Story and Christmas Vacation. I plan to watch each of them at least once this holiday season!

Monday, December 11, 2006

Mornings

I think morning, after getting through the waking up business, is really one of my favorite times of the day. When all the hectic stuff is done and it's just me, the house, the computer and my cup of coffee, I really do enjoy morning. It's the first opening of the eyes that just really bugs me! But once I am seated here at the computer and my world opens up 'to infinity and beyond' I feel pretty good. I am sure the coffee helps quite a bit!
I enjoy reading the news online. I enjoy checking my emails and seeing what's new. I like going to my message boards and catching up there, too. I like the light coming in my windows into the family room, the sounds of the aquarium bubbling softly, the cat rubbing against my foot, the feel of the keyboard under my fingertips. I always say that morning is my least favorite time of the day and that I am a night person. But that just isn't true. I enjoy every part of my day and appreciate each day for the gift it is. I just have a hard time dealing with those first few seconds!

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Lazy Sunday Morning

It's a lazy Sunday morning, just the perfect type of day to spend reading emails, requesting books from the library, drinking coffee and relaxing. After reading the blogs of a few friends I decided it might also be a good time to start one of my own. So here I am!
I suppose this will be full of the homemaking things I do and the movies I love and the activities of my family who are number one in my life.
I think of our home as a haven from the outside world, a cozy place to feel safe and warm and loved. Hopefully you will get that feeling when you read about our lives.
On this Sunday we will be baking the rest of the Toll House cookies we started yesterday. It is sunny but cold outside, so a perfect day to have the house warmed by the oven and the aroma of baking cookies and freshly brewed coffee scenting the house. Dean Martin will serenade us in the kitchen with his version of Christmas classics. I am looking forward to my day!